We need to learn how to talk to radicalized people
DRAFT
We need to learn how to talk to radicalized people. Not because they deserve it, but because it’s beneficial for us, long-term.
How do you know if someone close to you has been radicalized?
There’s a lot of talk of social media algorithms reducing trust and increasing radicalization. What’s the definition of being radicalized?
Cult? Anti-rationalism? Anti-science, anti-argumentation. How does commitment to rationality look like? City culture vs conservative culture. Blind trust - only one speaks the truth, everyone else lies. Idealization of a leader. Black-and-white thinking. Low social trust, in institutions. Motivated? Not uncritical, rather hyper-critical in a unbalanced way, while trusting others without question. Same as extremism? Where the goal motivates any means. No regard to human rights?
pressure towards uniformity, rejection of opinion deviates, in-group favoritism, out-group derogation, endorsement of autocratic leadership [8] Violence against outgroup member.
Deradicalisation as a decentralized process.
Bad-faith, good-faith.
Why is radicalization bad? A functional and healthy democracy requires people respecting the rules, and a shared reality.
Who is vulnerable for disinformation, and why?
Breakdown of the social contract, what’s expected and what’s delivered.
LEAP
- Listen without an agenda
- Empathize with any concern they have
- Ask open questions with honest curiosity
- Use the Socratic method when possible
Deep concern and worry about different issues.
Socratic dialogue. Ask open questions in good faith.
Less black-and-white.
First reduce or deactivate safety mode [7], then talk.
Ther person feels profoundly unsafe. The world is threatening, people have bad intentions, harm seems imminent. […] worsened by a deep-seated doubt about being able to stop the bad thing from happening. [7, p 124]
Have to first show empathy to reach a problem-solving state-of-mind [6].
The need for closure is defined as the desire for a quick and firm answer to a question and the aversion toward ambiguity or uncertainty[8] a heightened need for closure gives rise to a syndrome of “group centrism”
Brainwashed - how to know? They call you brainwahsed, and you call them brainwahsed. Are we both brainwashed, because of a never-ending social feedback loop to confirm are biases? Who’s willing to investigate those biases, though, and who isn’t?
Sources
[1] https://sa1s3.patientpop.com/assets/docs/85479.pdf - LEAP
[2] I’m not sick, I don’t need help, Xavier Amador
[3] Behave, Sapolsky
[4] Prisoners of Hate, Aaron Beck
[5] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4314927/ - Black & white thinking: A cognitive distortion
[6] CBT for cancer
[7] Recovery-oriented therapy for serious mental illness.
[8] Extremism and the psychology of uncertainty